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<b>A coming-of-age memoir by a Colombian-Cuban woman about shaping lessons from home into a new, queer life</b><br />  <br />In this lyrical, coming-of-age memoir, Daisy Hernández chronicles what the women in her Cuban-Colombian family taught her about love, money, and race. Her mother warns her about <i>envidia </i>and men who seduce you with pastries, while one tía bemoans that her niece is turning out to be “<i>una india</i>” instead of an American. Another auntie instructs that when two people are close, they are bound to become like <i>uña y mugre</i>, fingernails and dirt, and that no, Daisy’s father is not godless. He’s simply praying to a candy dish that can be traced back to Africa. <br /><br /> These lessons—rooted in women’s experiences of migration, colonization, <i>y cariño</i>—define in evocative detail what it means to grow up female in an immigrant home. In one story, Daisy sets out to defy the dictates of race and class that preoccupy her mother and tías, but dating wo